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it seems a little silly
https://www.chattingwithcandice.com/112-candice-horbacz-shining-through-the-shadows-reflections-on-identity-motherhood-and-accept
Candice Horbacz on ChattingWithCandice.com
Tag: self
When you know yourself inside and out, you are better able to define yourself
Keywords: abuse , bullying , knowing yourself , self-knowledge , bravery , confidence , gut feeling , instincts , self-esteem , self-love , sense of self , strength
In other words, you won’t allow others, particularly bullies and abusers, do it for you.
https://authorcheriewhite.com/2024/06/18/knowing-yourself
To write is the intimate gesture of taking the reader by the hand, luring or leading them through all the corners of yourself that they may experience worlds and wonders through your eyes
Keywords: OUT OF THE SHOEBOX: RANDOMNESS , #EVERYDAYINSPIRATION , #PROSE , POSTADAY
I remember being about 3 years old. I’d wake up each morning just as the sun began to break over the horizon. I’d get up on my knees to peer through the window above my bed waiting for that first light.
https://alltheshoesiwear.wordpress.com/2018/02/08/day-1-why-do-i-write
If you spend all your time going from pub garden to day festival, to club to pub garden again you’ll burn yourself out and you won’t end up being able to take in any of the experiences you’re having
Keywords: Love & Sex , Relationships
Get a journal and clear your head of all the dumb stuff that swirls around in it. Walk around a park with no headphones on just listening to the silence seeing what seeps in between the gaps, buy a matcha latte so green it looks like something from an alien planet. Look after yourself as if you were your partner. Make your bed so it’s nice when you get in from a night out. Buy yourself a pastry from the shop. Remember, no one knows what you want better than yourself.
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a44900816/i-used-to-think-being-single-was-a-means-to-an-end-but-now-im-the-main-event
Then again, see also: https://Wants.BLOG 😉
I’m an adult and I’m pissed
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Pissed that I keep getting rejected, pissed that I didn’t do any internships, pissed that my family is looking at me to already get my shit together and pissed at myself mainly. Who the fuck told me it was a good idea to purse a career in a state college that barely has connections or useful resources to the career that I am pursuing. Why I didn’t I become a social worker or a nurse or fucking lawyer!
https://misconceptionsdotblog.wordpress.com/2022/06/09/the-misconception-of-post-grad-depression
I’ve Googled your boobs
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They cover self-disclosure in our culture, the rise of therapy, how if you self-disclose publicly you’re opening yourself up to other people’s opinions and interpretations of you personal experiences, when self-disclosures can be putting you at risk, and whether you might be self-disclosing for the wrong reasons, such as the search for validation. Bridget talks about how self-disclosures in her writing help her connect to people, Jeren weighs the delicate balance of self-disclosures as a therapist, and having to judge the benefits and potential costs of being so open about his life on a podcast. They discuss vulnerability as a strength vs. weaponized vulnerability and empathy, sharing parts of your story that contain other people, and their encounters with the old school ideas that good therapists don’t self-disclose and good writers don’t either.
https://bridgetphetasy.substack.com/p/factory-settings-15
See also “Responsible Media Literacy“
Getting more pretty would make me like me because I would be accepted by society but having the confidence to like me without being pretty would also make me like me
Keywords: personal
No way is wrong but I will be exploring the way to get the confidence to like myself because I think having confidence would benefit me in the long run.
https://pearleeblog.wordpress.com/2022/08/12/if-i-get-more-pretty-do-you-think-i-will-like-me
I try to have compassion for the hurting girl who wrote some things to make it hurt less
Keywords: blogger , divorce-recovery , intentionalliving , nurse , nursing , thedefiningdecade , trauma-recovery , writer , writing
The last year of the most ridiculous decade. There was graduation, a marriage, a divorce, a few different states, a few stabs at new careers. Two graduate programs (one that I quit), three dogs, eight houses, and about a million hours in therapy. How to close this chapter?
https://letters-to-you.blog/2021/08/20/hello-its-me
With seeking approval, you give people a power over you, and they know it — they can use that power, if they choose to, and control you
Keywords: allgemein , approval confidence love
And you can choose that. You don’t have to feel obilgated to do or be anything. Let things in your life which serve you- the rest can fuck off and leave!
https://growingupdiaries.com/2021/08/18/growing-up-diaries-01
A lot of my problems came from the things that I could not control
Keywords: Thoughts , Life , Personal , Self Appreciation
I had to leave my dormitory because some government agents decided to use my dormitory as a place for quarantine, without providing me with any compensation (Hi Dinas Kesehatan, are you there?). I lost my phone in Palembang because apparently some folks thought that taking away other people’s phone while he is walking down the street is not an evil action. I also lost an internship opportunity because Google stupidly decided that it would put the acceptance email on the spam box. These things were out of my control and to face such occurrences were definitely maddening. It felt like a bomb just dropped in your brain and the only thing you could do was to think “Why?”
https://alifgono.wordpress.com/2021/07/09/self-wow-ing
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