Look, I know you think the fact you feel upset or angry or anxious is important. That it matters. Hell, you probably think that because you feel like your face just got shat on makes you important. But it doesn’t. Feelings are just these… things that happen. The meaning we build around them–what we decide is important or unimportant–comes later.https://markmanson.net/fuck-your-feelings
Over the last few months I have learned quite a bit more about the people around me. I’ve always considered myself an empathetic person. And I’ve been pretty outspoken that I think empathy is something everyone should possess. The sad truth is, so many people do not have the ability to put themselves into someone else’s headspace.
This year I finally feel like I’m surrounded by the right people. And in every conversation I have, I try to take the inspiring and truthful tid bits and apply what might help parts of my life.
Something someone said that has stuck in my head is that we need to allow people to go through their own seasons. We can only control ourselves. We cannot control what other people think or do.
All we can do is what we think is right, and what we know feels right for ourselves. Now, the…
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I’ve thought a long time about what I am going to write, if I should even write, what is even the fucking point? But whatever. it’s kind of therapeutic for me, so here I am. Over a year ago was my last blog post. It was bitching about being fat. That was my main reason why I decided to write again. I was so angry, broken by my own body, or what my idea of what my body should look like. There was so much guilt and shame, but I can say with confidence that I am different from that woman. Not yet whole, but definitely healthier and more happy.
I have always been overweight. Well, since I can remember anyway. I have also hated my body just as long. No matter how active I was, my body refused to be anything but just overweight. Like most girls, I was…
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And one more thing fuck what everybody says, people will always give their opinions and they will always criticize fuck what they say, this is my life , my body and my mind.. fuck what you think about my life, I might have it hard now, I might have problems now but that won’t stop me from being successful that won’t stop me from being the best version of myself… if someone is laughing at me because they have better clothes, Better phone, richer parents or whatever then fuck them, this is my life and I love it the way it is, I could’ve had a different life but God choose this one for me and I’m gonna make something out of it, and I’m gonna succeed from whatever Situation in my life LT DLAMINI