When I berate myself for missing such deadlines my toxicity seem to spread so bad we do not get anything accomplished that much

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I want kids to learn how to work in grace under pressure too. I used to be too focused on outcome that I tend to forget the process itself. There are still things I would need to polish with my working style I have adapted. As always I am a work in progress.

https://keivoice.wordpress.com/2020/12/10/work-now

Unbridled positivity in an experience of failure or distress makes people feel worse, not better

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Often, all someone wants and needs is the acknowledgment and validation of their feelings. We all want to feel heard and seen. We don’t want someone to tell us how to feel or not feel or how it “isn’t that bad.”

https://mansi41665307.wordpress.com/2020/12/10/toxic-positivity-why-being-positive-could-be-bad-sometimes

Social media collects all kinds of data on people and then uses that data to manipulate behavior

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Social media users are thus pawns of all manner of salesmen and autocrats. They are brainwashed to want, fear and believe what corrupt and nefarious forces want them to believe in order to expand those forces’ wealth and power.

https://richardsteventhomas.wordpress.com/2020/12/10/12-10-20-my-answer-to-the-social-dilemma-poetry-essay-socialmedia-art-criticalthinking-education-humanity

I don’t want to fit in

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For me, to fit in, means to bend myself to a shape that I am not. I know enough about myself at this point in my life to know that I am flexible and I will bend but I only want to do this in ways that suit me and certainly not for the benefit of those who require it of me so that I can neatly fit in the box that they have allocated for me. That isn’t me. That would be a bent out of shape version of me.

https://417daysayear.wordpress.com/2020/12/02/how-important-is-fitting-in

When it comes to social media, the feedback loop is broken because users are not customers

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Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Snap‘s Snapchat, Google — at the end of the day, they are not here to serve you and me. They can only survive if they serve their customers (the advertisers) first. The best way to serve those customers is clear: Get users addicted to the screen. Remember: If something is free, you are the product. 

https://www.fool.com/investing/2020/12/10/social-dilemma-why-im-selling-alphabet-facebook

Log the fuck out of social media and recover

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Make no mistake, loneliness kills and I am not advocating that anyone isolate, especially if you’re depressed or struggling. In that case, by all means, reach out on social media and know you are loved. You matter. But I will say that learning how to go from loneliness to solitude has been one of the greatest gifts I’ve ever given myself and it’s been in those moments of quiet, I’ve come to know my strength.

(100) Free Solo: The Holidays – Phetasy Community

I don’t need to be validated by anybody else in this life but me therefore I get to live differently

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My success will always be determined by the love in my heart that I will share with those that are worthy of it. Too often in life we sell ourselves short in engage with those that are les than beneficial to our lives. I know that you have noticed them you are just too scared to sever the cord. A leech will one day suck the life right out of you as they have put a high value on material wealth. After a lifetime of feeding the beast and being a carrier what else can you truly expect.

https://rubyohsosweet.com/2020/11/12/success-vs-succesful